Exceptional Delaware’s New Look

Non-Special Needs But Still Awesome!

Welcome to the new Exceptional Delaware!  I’ve been wanting to change things up for a while now, so here you have it.  I liked the old design, but I was limited with what I could do with it.  Special thanks to Kilroy for some advice on how to do some things!

The links are now at the top for easier access to parents.  My subtitle has changed because this has become the heart of this blog.  The problems in special education are mounting in this state, and across the country.  What was once unique is becoming dismantled on a national scale.  This is not a unique Delaware problem.

I’ve updated the blogs I follow into four sections: Delaware, Education, Disabilities, and Other Awesome Blogs.

Delaware will focus on happenings in education and government in these bizarre times.  All the Delaware favorites are here, and there is a lot going on in the 1st State!  From primaries, to education, and to a cultural change in the way many of us are thinking about what goes on here.  People are getting fed up with the way things are run here, and more and more of us aren’t drinking the kool-aid!

Education will cover all things education reform as well as special education.  If you want to find out the truths and hidden agendas behind Common Core, this is the place to go!  Educators all over the country are finding out what really lies behind the lies and innuendos that are being sold to our schools.  As well, links to special education will be included in this section.  There are some great special education teachers out there, and some of them have created awesome blogs to show what they do best!

Disabilities is for different types of special needs and how families cope with children (or adults) who have them.  To me, this is the true heart of special needs, and what happens at home and school can have a tremendous effect on the family.  You will find posts that will shock you, and others that give you that extra bit of hope when you don’t think it exists.

Other Awesome Blogs are off the beaten path of this blog, but I still like them and they are worth checking out!  I will be adding more to this section as time goes on.

I hope you like the new look and it is more user-friendly for you!  The best (or worst depending on your perspective) is yet to come…

God Be There – 9/11


The Qwiet Muse

September 11, 2001

12, 10, 9, and 4. That is how old my children were on September 11, 2001, the day everything they knew about their world changed.

When my oldest came to tell me something really bad just happened, the look on his face was something I’d never seen before, something I never hope to see again. He was scared and confused. “Something bad has happened mommy, it’s on TV and lots of people are going to be dead now.”

I followed him to the living room as he told me an airplane had an accident and hit a building. When I saw the awful scene playing out on the screen I felt a sickness in the pit of my stomach, how does an accident like this happen?

The second plane hadn’t hit yet.

When it did, I crumbled.

I remember falling to my knees right there in front of the television…

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A Tribute To Heroes, In Memory of Those Lost on 9/11

Non-Special Needs But Still Awesome!


Walk On: In Remembrance of 9/11

Non-Special Needs But Still Awesome!


I wrote this many years ago on my older blog, Tales From Another Time, but I still believe in these words.  13 years later, when I really remember, I can still vividly recall every second of that horrible day.

Those four key strokes bring back so many memories for so many. For me, it reminds me of the darkest day I have ever known. Full of death, and fear, and tragedy. Any innocence I may have had, any idealistic hope I had for world peace, it died that day. I saw the face of hatred. I felt the fear the word terror brings. We all did. We cried. We prayed. We sat in front of our television sets and watched horror unfold before our eyes. We looked at an empty sky with a mind-numbing feeling of disbelief. We were in shock for weeks after. We knew there wouldn’t be many survivors. We wanted to close our eyes and pretend and didn’t happen, that people didn’t die that day, and yet, we couldn’t. We knew.

Every year, on that day, I try to remember it. I firmly believe it should be a national day of mourning. Not a holiday. A holiday is a day of celebration. This day should be a somber day. A day of remembrance. A day of solitude.

I honestly don’t think there has been a day since that I haven’t thought of it. It still makes me sad and angry. I think about my son, who will be five next week. And how he didn’t have to live on that day. He was born more than two and a half years later. For him, it will be a very important chapter in a history book. He will ask me what happened that day, and I will tell him. He will ask why, and whose fault it was. And I really don’t know what I will tell him. You can blame Al Qaeda and Osama Bin Laden. You can blame the agencies that could have prevented it had they simply communicated with each other. But at the end of the day, what will that change? What happened, happened.

I think about the jumpers from time to time. And that painful choice they must have had. Die of fire and smoke or leap to certain death. For those who chose to look in pictures and on tv, those images will stay with us forever. I was raised Catholic. To me, suicide is not an option under any circumstances. But what do you call that choice? You know you are going to die. You won’t be saved. What do you do? I pray to God no one ever has to make that choice again.

Since that fateful day, the world has become a chaotic place. It has always been that way, but the mask was torn off that day. What we hoped and prayed wasn’t the case turned out to be very real. Wars have been fought, greed has elevated, and the world’s economy is the worst since the pre World War II years. I believe what we are looking at is evil run rampant. There is no black and white, or even gray areas. It is what it is and it is called chaos.

In the coming years, we will negotiate with fundementalists who destroy lives. We will see the seeds of greed in our own homes, as the economic meltdown gets worse and every single household is affected. We will see uglier terroristic attacks and somewhere someone will die because of it. We will see the world reject us more and more as our environment is changed in ways we never imagined or in ways we didn’t want to see. We will see areas of the world once vibrant with life turned into desserts.

And yet, we will survive. We will do what we did in those days and weeks after 9/11. We will pick up the pieces of our shattered lives, and look for hope. I pray we will unite and conquer these problems together. Not by electing someone to lead us, but by truly coming together and defeating the evils that plague us. We need to stop blaming others for the shape of the world and form new shapes. We need to recognize that what someone believes in isn’t always wrong, but their own point of view. We need to walk on.