I’ve heard from several sources that the fight in the cafeteria where a disabled student was pummeled could have been prevented had district staff or administration intervened. These same sources revealed that district staff come over to the high school to eat in the very nice cafeteria. On Tuesday, district staff were present during the fight, including Superintendent Dr. Kevin Fitzgerald. The reason no one tries to break up a fight? Because they are not allowed to if they have not received restraint training.
It would be one thing if this were indeed a “rare” situation, as described by Fitzgerald in his announcement about the fight today. But I’m hearing there have been several fights. Another recent one had the same scenario- a girl gets beaten up, no one breaks it up, and the school calls the parent to tell them to pick their child up and she may need medical attention. I’m sorry, but if the school or district refuses to get the training needed to properly break up a fight, then they should incur the medical expenses for a student when they fail to prevent it or act once it starts.
In terms of the beating the disabled child took, some have gone online suggesting the disabled child used the “n” word against the other student. But Diane Eastburn, the child’s advocate, said there were allegations tossed around but the school found through their investigations those allegations were false. Those comments appeared on the WDEL article that broke this story. Many have asked why the student who beat the child wasn’t expelled. Any school expulsion has to go through a school board. A school may suspend a student until the school board convenes to vote on that action item, but the school cannot expel a student. The student was arrested as per Fitzgerald’s statement today.
I have serious concerns with Fitzgerald putting in words that “The District will continue to work hard to insure the safety of our students.” How is it working hard if staff and administration don’t have the means to break up a fight? That cafeteria was filled with adults according to several sources. But in the video not one of them came over to the scene in the 30 seconds the fight took place. The high school does have a School Resource Officer, but the school cannot and should not rely on one person to break up a fight. It is a logistical nightmare. What comfort does this give to the parents of the beaten child? If I were them, I would see that as a slap in the face. Because their child needed medical attention while the adults watched.
This district has been in the spotlight this week, and not in a good way. I’ve written about Caesar Rodney School District more this week than I have my entire time blogging. And I’ve done this for well over three years now. One source, who wished to remain anonymous for fear of retaliation, said “This isn’t anything new. It is just boiling to the surface now.” Once you let the genie out of the bottle…
Delaware’s legislators have to find a way to make discipline issues more uniform throughout the state. They have to make sure there are proper methods for interventions before events like this erupt all over the news. It was a year and a half ago that Amy Joyner Francis was brutally murdered in a high school bathroom. We don’t need a repeat of that again. Fights will happen but I can’t help but think this district and our state could be doing a hell of a lot more to prevent them or act when they do.
In a week where Caesar Rodney has been inundated with bad news, from the custodian at Charlton sending explicit texts to a minor, to the Rider Mascot racial slur, and this fight, it is clear this district needs to think very carefully about what kind of message they are sending to parents. Their Board of Education needs to take a very clear look at these situations and not just brush them off. They need to come up with strategies and policies to tackle this in the best interests of students.
Many parents are wondering what is happening to students. Fights are getting more vicious. Racial tensions are building up in our state. But we have far too many adults in charge who seem oblivious to the realities on the ground. People are very sensitive today and our schools and leaders have to recognize this. They must come up with better ways to help students deal with our world. We can no longer let local control dictate what happens with school climate. We must have uniform policies, training, and resources in every single public school in this state. Parents or guardians must also help their children understand and cope with these issues as well. For those who say “it was like this when I was a kid”, maybe it was, but we have more resources and knowledge on how to deal with these situations now. We can’t live in bubbles. If we want to live in this world, we have to share it. And that means accepting others differences and helping others. The hate has to stop before it becomes an uncontrollable beast.
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Connections has instructors that train on restraint. I worked for them it was About a four hour class. We had to pass to get a job that paid eight dollars an hour and a high school education female in my fifties!! And your staff that have Master degrees have never taken a four hour restaining class? And your staff gets paid how much an hour? This is actually appalling to me in today’s society that you don’t have one person in your school that knows how to restrain but teachers want guns in their class rooms? OMG can someone explain the logic here? Or don’t teachers have common sense?
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CKM, I realize this is a serious matter and your comments are spot on, but it did make me chuckle as I thought of all the parents who 24/7 for 18 or more years are constantly “restraining” their children (at the grocery store, on the playground, at church, in the car, etc.). How many parents received “4 hours of restraint training” before they had children? Kudos to you for taking the time and initiative to receive the training. Did Connections give you a certificate to teach it? Sounds like Delaware needs someone like you to teach the class rather than paying a contractor who has no interest in children but does have interest in how much money they’ll make. Delaware needs to get off its apathy and initiate sensible practices that meet the needs of these children, they don’t need someone with a doctorate degree to stand by and watch kids get bullied, physically beat up, demoralized, and have to deal with a future where their school records will show they misbehaved in school. You are watching the decline of Delaware’s education system because you have people in charge that don’t know what they’re doing.
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Someone told me restraint training costs $2,000 per teacher andrequires 16 hours of trsining. If true, that seems excessive and someone is making big $$$$.
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