As special needs parents, we are told things all the time. But nobody knows our children better than we do. We can get guidance and support, but at the end of the day, we know best for what makes our children who and what they are.
Fear. I have grappled with fear my entire life. I’m 54 years old. You’d think I’d have figured out a magic formula to ward off fear by now… but I have not. However I have figured out some things that used to frighten me, but that no longer do. Things like this:
“Among all autistics, 75 percent are expected to score in the mentally retarded range on standard intelligence tests — that’s an IQ of 70 or less.” ~ Wired Magazine 2008
“Roughly 25 percent of people with autism speak few or no words.” ~ SFARI 2013
These two quotes had not yet been written when my daughter was diagnosed, instead there were countless other “statistics” spoken and/or written as though fact, that terrified me. I had not yet learned to question everything we were told about autism. I had not yet realized that almost everything people said to us about autism…
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